Opportunities

Several years ago, I was determined the to go to the movies by myself. It sounds ridiculous that this was a big event for me, but it took me lots of courage to be out in public alone. I was sure I would see people I knew. Would they think I had no friends? How embarrassing that would be?

Nevertheless, I was committed to “trying to go it alone,” just this one time. The theatre I chose was 30 miles away from home which greatly reduced my chances to run into anyone I knew. I bought my ticket, bulked up on candy and popcorn and took a seat in the darkest part of the theatre. I not only survived being alone that first time, but I surprised myself, I loved it. I was free at last!

No longer would I have to wait for others to accompany me. If someone wanted to join me, great, but I was now able to explore by myself. My world expanded since that first “solo trip.” Since that time, I have done lots of things by alone. I have dined, attended concerts and lectures, traveled and explored unfamiliar places alone and even moved to places where I knew no one.

In addition to enjoying these events, I discovered that it was easy to meet people who I never would have encountered if I were with friends.

Now I have a choice to fly solo or in formation. Both scenarios are fun and exciting. I no longer limit my possibilities. I am free to be myself, alone or with others!

What about you?
Have you limited yourself in any way?
What would be the advantage to you if you expanded your experiences?Is there something you would like to try, but have not yet found the courage to do so?

I am including a wonderful short video about ways to be alone which I found wonderful. Enjoy!

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